goals tagged: sexual

The ups and downs of achieving your goals, shared openly, honestly, secretly.

5
Hanging In
goal: have a healthy sex life

I had a bit of a slip up over the weekend. I actually looked at porn for the first time in like 4 months. So that was kinda bad for my brain. But it's behind me now and I'm feeling strong. I just made a good life decision to drop a part time job that had been stressing me out. I might miss the money temporarily, but I know it's the right choice in the long run.

1
Needs Support
goal: find a mistress

Nowhere near the goal

9
Feeling Good
goal: have a healthy sex life

things are good. haven't looked at porn in a while but now i am only seeing one girl. i'd like to have a couple more on the go. nevertheless quitting porn was very important for me. onward and upward!

8
Feeling Good
goal: have a healthy sex life

Well I've been clean of porn for over 2 months now, which is great. However one of my two girls dropped out. And now the one left is leaving for a week. So I have anything but a healthy sex life for the next 10 days. However I'm still giving myself an 8 because I know I can get out there and find more women if I want to. Live is going pretty smoothly since I quit porn in fact. Yay!

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5
Hanging In
goal: find a mistress

I'm really just starting off with this

8
Feeling Good
goal: explore my sexuality

i have a few more partners and had sex with more people

7
Feeling Good
goal: have a healthy sex life

Day 30 no porn. Feeling pretty good. Had a date with a new girl last night. It didn't go amazing but that's fine.

5
Hanging In
goal: have a healthy sex life

Day 27 no porn. I have a cold and am not feeling great. Also my 3 chicks turned into one, though one is probably resurfacing. I have some prospects but nothing too solid. No dates worked out for this week. Ideally I'll always have backup chicks to draw upon to keep my rotation at 3+. So, technically I haven't been laid enough in the last week.

I will be guarding against porn cravings extra hard while I'm sick.

5
Hanging In
goal: have a healthy sex life

day 23 no porn, but one of my girls dropped off and the other i was getting kind of sick of, so i'm down to one girl. that's not "healthy" in my book since i want 3, so i've got some great prospects from over the weekend. will be going on dates this week.

7
Feeling Good
goal: have a healthy sex life

Day 19 no porn. just sent one of my girls off. we had great sex. creative projects have been a bit sluggish lately, but i just filled out a calendar with all the steps leading to the achievement of my goal by the end of the month! yess! just gotta stick to it, no prob! :D

sex was interesting. still noticing my mind tending toward fantasy a lot more than before i quit porn. my brain is looking for opportunities. bad brain! ;)


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